By the same token, Buyers, chances are no matter how lovely property is, you're going to do some sort of remodeling right? They do something, so do not beat up your seller over the cost of paint, okay? Everybody pretty much paints their new house. Do not beat up your seller over the cost of a countertop that's actually up to snuff, it's just not your color, okay? And do not beat your seller up over like landscaping that is in keeping with the neighborhood, looks great, it's just not your taste. Those things are really your money to spend. What I recommend people doing when they're going in to buy a house and because the concern is - and I understand this buyers- is that you're worried about getting over your head. You're worried about getting underwater on the house that you pay $X and you put $Y more dollars in and now you are like underwater. You’ve spent more money than the house is worth. Totally understandable. Here's a little tip for primary homeowners that actually is very common for people to spend a little bit more (I'm not suggesting you get to an unsafe place) but I tell people that you should feel comfortable in your primary residence this isn't for second homes, for primary residents to go up to about 10% over what you think the top value is on that house in terms of your spending. I know it sounds crazy but it's what people do and they do it safely all the time. You go for your comfort level but here's the thing, you are going to - the idea is that in your primary, you're going to be there long enough to see it appreciate and get your money's worth out of that. Not to mention, hello, why did you do it in the first place? For your comfort your enjoyment and your happiness.